The weather this morning was way too hot and humid. I hate that I have to a cardigan because of the tan line 0n my shoulder. I’ll try to get a picture of it later, although you really wouldn’t want to see it…
Note to self: If you’re going to spend the whole day surfing at [...]

I have been thinking…. what if there is a person who has a parallel life to mine? What if we go through the same things but we just don’t know about each other? What if we are reading the same book simultaneously and use the same toothpaste, drink the same brand of coffee, and order [...]

Thank you for all your emails, concerns and continued support on my blog. I am still working on some health & beauty articles, which I will share with you as soon as it’s done! For now, here are some of the emails I’ve received from my dear readers…

“Hi Fay! Well dun noe if you can [...]

Once you lose yourself, you have two choices.
Find the person you used to be, or lose that person completely.
Because sometimes you have to step outside of the person you’ve been and remember the person you were meant to be.
The person you wanted to be. The person you are.

You’re beautiful. Don’t look at those stupid magazines with stick-like models. Eat healthy and exercise. Be you. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re not good enough. Love your family with all your heart . Follow your instincts, they’re usually right. You are gorgeous, whether you’re a size 2 or 14. It doesn’t matter what you [...]

It puts a smile on my face when I get emails from readers of my blog because I always wonder why people seldom comment on my posts. I appreciate that at least some people are thoughtful enough to send me a personal note
If you enjoy reading my blog, show me some love [...]

In my previous post (titled ‘Too Fat To Fly‘), I talked about how being overweight is a choice and some people debated the fact; that some people may simply be fat because of uncontrollable forces such as glandular problems and genetics.
*I would like to address this topic head on just so that I can set [...]

*update*
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“Being creative is part of my life.
I’m always thinking and trying to learn new things.
There’s just too many things in life to learn, I never want to stop learning.”
My only downfall is that I can be a total sloth sometimes…

(If [...]

Dear friends,
If you receive an email from withlovefay@hotmail.com or any other email that does not come from @withlovefay.com , please mark it as spam and delete it immediately. Apparently, someone has been pretending to be me and emailing my photographer friends asking for my pictures claiming that I’ve lost them. I have a backup of [...]

Reports about a woman who was refused to board a plane because she was “too fat” were fake.

Newspaper La Repubblica reported Anna Delluci was suing budget airline EasyJet after the check-in flight told her she would have to buy two tickets.

The newspaper said before the Bari to Rome flight, the 55-year-old Ms Delluci was told [...]

“We spend our whole lives telling ourselves everything happens for a reason.
When in reality, it’s just that we give reason for everything that happens.”

At 12hr 34 minutes 56 seconds on 7th August 2009 later, the time and date will be 12:34:56 07/08/09
This will never happen again in your lifetime!
Crazy huh?

Mars has introduced their first candy bar in 20 years and they call this one “The Fling.“
Has anyone tried it out or seen it in stores anywhere here in Singapore?

85 Calories? I guess I can afford that on my cheat day! Mmmm….
With Love, Fay Hokulani

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Just a quick update on what’s been going on since I last blogged:
1. Signed up for California Fitness on Monday
2. Went for a few castings this week
3. My sister’s birthday dinner @ Mimolette on Friday
4. DVD night on Saturday
5. Family dinner on Sunday night (later today)
A number of you have questioned my daily diet [...]

We are all so unaware of the illusion of happiness.
The illusion keeps people safe and, let’s be honest, nobody really likes to question anything.
The human condition is the pursuit of comfort, and tampering with that is an unwise thing to do, especially by the standards of our anti-culture.
We run from truth and [...]

“So happy that my blog is doing so well! Over 50 000 hits already!”
Thank you for all your support!
With love, Fay Hokulani

I have to be honest, especially with myself, that I have not been doing well this week. Yes, I am guilty of partying twice this week (I usually NEVER go out… believe me) but more ultimately, THIS WEEK – I had “carelessly” drank-’til-my-head-hurts-the-next morning and stuffed-more-than-I could-swallow. At the back of my head, I try [...]

Being happy is about finding your bliss. It’s keeping that adrenaline rush in you. It’s accomplishing your goals and facing your fears. Putting yourself forward. Pushing yourself to the limits. Standing at the edge and getting to know it. Thinking ahead. Living for today and always stoked for tomorrow. Happiness always comes first.

Nothing beats the [...]

This post is dedicated to my girl, Lydia Norman. You’re amazing.

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own even if she never wants
to or needs to.
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her
dreams wants to see her in [...]

Oprah wrote this about men…
1.  If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
2.  If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
3.  Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
4.  Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
5.  Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant [...]